Get the love you want.

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Imago Relationship Therapy...

Imago Relationship Therapy...

What makes Imago different?

Imago helps couples uncover the deeper patterns behind their struggles. We all carry childhood experiences into our relationships, shaping how we react to love, criticism, neglect, and conflict. By recognizing these triggers in yourself and your partner, you can move from frustration to empathystrengthening your bond instead of repeating past wounds.

Imago helps you understand yourself and your partner better and adopt new behaviors that nurture your relationship.

Growth isn’t just possible—it’s transformational.

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Do any of these sound familiar?

  • We struggle with communication.

  • We either avoid tough conversations or turn them into arguments.

  • The same conflicts keep repeating.

  • I don’t feel safe being myself.

  • We’ve lost the closeness and intimacy we once had.

  • Life’s demands make it hard to focus on “us.”

  • An affair or other betrayal has shaken our trust.

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Transform your relationship.

✔ Communicate openly and resolve conflicts with ease.

✔ Reignite passion and intimacy in your relationship.

✔ Break free from power struggles and negative patterns.

✔ Foster deeper love, connection, and understanding.

✔ Make your day-to-day life more joyful.

Change is not only possible, but leads to valuable growth and healing for both partners.

Imago approaches problems on all levels: emotional, cognitive, behavioral, and spiritual (not religious–spiritual) levels. We find that a deep understanding of each other’s feelings and experiences is crucial to being able to empathize with each other. We also recognize that we often need to change our behaviors to give and get what we really want.

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“We waste time looking for the perfect lover instead of creating the perfect love.”

— Tom Robbins

Online & in-person sessions available.

Online

Research has found online counseling to be as effective as in-person sessions and many couples prefer the convenience. Online sessions via Zoom are available for couples residing anywhere in California or Colorado.

In-Person

If you prefer to meet in-person, sessions are available in Carlsbad/ San Diego, California.

Why Imago?

Imago Relationship Therapy offers couples a powerful, structured approach to healing and connection by uncovering the deeper patterns that shape their relationships. Rather than just addressing surface-level conflicts, Imago Therapy helps partners identify their emotional triggers, understand how childhood experiences influence their dynamics, and develop effective communication skills that foster empathy and intimacy. By shifting from blame to curiosity and healing past wounds, couples can transform recurring conflicts into opportunities for growth. Whether struggling with communication, trust, or emotional disconnect, Imago Therapy provides a clear, proven path toward deeper understanding, renewed passion, and lasting connection.

Are you ready to get started? Get in touch.